The Proposal- Leap Year

Well today is the day that some of the women around the world bend down on one knee to propose to the man of their dreams. The tradition started in 1288 when Queen Margaret of Scotland decreed that women could propose on February 29th each leap year.  

The stats show that 9% of proposals are from women and of that 80% of men would accept. Not sure I would be that brave! If you are good luck. I wonder how the ladies who are going to propose are going to do it.

2012 is going to be a very special year, especially for those of us living in the UK, with the Queen’s Diamond Jubilee, and also the Olympic and Paralympics Games this year

TRUE romantics might wait to show affection on Valentine’s Day but this year, we’re in a Leap Year. It could hold even further appeal for girls wanting to truly take charge of their relationships.

If your significant other has been dragging his feet, making excuses or changing the subject, take charge and pop the question on February 29th, a date that comes only once every four years.

How will you pop the question? Let us know

check out these videos for inspiration 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pnVAE91E7kM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzEkLz-_6fM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJWlavnM6b0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oVbX-4n0D4s&feature=related

Here's a few tips when planning your proposal 

http://www.yourengagement101.com/proposals/2010/07/15-marriage-proposal-tips/

How will you pop the question? Let us know

Chat soon, 

J

A Valentine’s Day Wedding

Valentine’s Day is one and the same with romance and if you’ve chosen this day to marry, you must exude love and romance. Set the stage for your Valentine’s wedding with a tantalizing theme of soft love.

The location for your Valentine’s wedding must provide the feeling of intimacy, a good choice may be a country inn, bed & breakfast or winery.

It does not need to be small, but will ideally provide nooks, alcoves and romantic “hideaways” for guests to rekindle their own romantic flames. Candles and lots of them, soft lighting, comfy sofas for guests to relax in will all set the stage. A romantic country inn, bed & breakfast or winery are all great choices.

On the other hand if your aiming more for a dramatic look full of lusciousness and sexiness, try scouting for castles and historical mansions.

Red is the obvious and dramatic color of Valentine’s romance – the traditional color of the heart. You can play on this color without being limited to the bright red of Hallmark Valentines. Deep burgundies and maroons are just as romantic.

You can also choose a different color scheme for your flowers, bridal party attire and décor. Deep colors tend to be more dramatic like shimmering gold and rich ivories.

Valentine’s Wedding Attire

For your gown, think about what feels romantic to you.  Whether you have a dramatic satin or velvet dress with a plunging neckline, or a tight bodice with a tremendous skirt, always dress to capture the essence of the mood.

For the groom, a traditional black tuxedo with a red rose boutonniere or a deep red tie is dashing. Or a more 1940’s twist may be up your alley.

Floral designer Joe Massie and his Valentine's Day flower dress really caught our eye!

Valentine’s Wedding Decorations

Candles, candles and more candles!!!!!!!!!!  Candelabras will also help set the mood. Any lighting should be low, and fabrics should be soft and light.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Chat soon

J

With 2012 off to a great start, we have several brides who are wanting to make their wedding more of an event rather then the “traditional”  sit down reception.  Entertainers, musicians, even celebrity starts are now appearing at weddings and events, so why not take it one step further make your guests part of the fun!  We know not all will event entertain the idea of having animation, let alone games at their wedding, but by popular demand, here are some popular games that are played on or with the bridal couple.

Lifesaver
Blindfold the groom (you don't want to mess up the bride's makeup). Put 4 different colored (flavored) life savers in the Bride's mouth. Have the Groom fish each color out in a specific order (get the audience to choose). For each one he gets wrong, he has to do a drink (if he has been drinking too much may I suggest a full glass of water for each error)

Pop the Balloon
Get the wedding party out and place a balloon between each woman and man (use your imagination of where to put the balloon). They have to hug tightly enough to break the balloon. The last one to do it is punished. (Do not fully inflate the Newlyweds balloon - it makes it harder or impossible to pop). Punishments can be anything from kissing, to singing , to carrying the bride around the room, etc...

Instantly-Wed Game
Same as the Newly Wed Game - When the Bride leaves the room to change (or powder her nose) ask the groom some questions about them to see if the Bride answers the same when she returns. For each wrong answer you can offer a punishment. Sample Questions would be: What was the other person wearing when they met? Does the other person like their toilet paper to roll off the top of the roll or the bottom? Who is smarter, the bride or the groom and why?
You can also use do the above game with the bride and groom taking off their shoes and exchanging one of theirs for their spouses. Make the questions so that they have to answer with either a him or her. For example, "who will be the one who takes out the garbage?" The newlyweds would then hold up the shoe that corresponds with who they think is going to do it. Of course the couple have to be back to back so they cannot see how the other responds!

Guess Who

Have the bride and groom sit on chairs face back to one another, and ask a series of questions as to who is more likely to? Or who will be the first one to?

Check out this video from utube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yubZktEvvrU

Guess the Hands (Calves, Thighs, Butt, etc... work too)
Blind fold the participant and have him or her feel a certain body part of some volunteers and then their spouse (remember your doing a family show here!). Then he or she has to guess which one was their partners.

A Little Green Activity

I decided to write yet another blog on green events not because I'm an environment conscious junkie, but rather because more and more clients are becoming educated on the simple ways to recycle without compromising their style and wallet.

We're all about creating one of a kind events and invitations, but if we can reusing things intelligently, ultimately wasting less, so where's the harm?

We hold the idea that being environmentally friendly doesn’t mean refusing the things we love and want, but rather designing, developing and using products in more informed, eco-friendly ways.

While in the planning stages of your event, big or small, special or corporate, consider the following ideas to show your guests your passion for the environment:

-        Have all of the elements of your event in one location so as to minimize the amount of driving for guests

-        find a local non-for-profit organization that will welcome the leftovers from your event rather then throwing it to waste

-        -consider (for weddings) rather then a registry with items you may not necessarily need, give your guests teh options to donate to your favorite organization in your name.

Your event invitation can set the tone for your environmentally friendly wedding. Today there are many options for 100% recycled, partially recycled or completely tree free papers which Over the Top Events can provide. Consider all the following where you can use recycled paper:

• engagement announcements
• save the date cards
• shower invitations
• shower thank you notes
• wedding invitations
• ceremony programs
• place cards
• menu cards
• wedding announcements
• thank you notes

 Your wedding flowers can be a place where you can make conscientious decisions which can have big eco consequences. Choosing a florist where organically grown, in-season, local flowers are used can be a much better earth friendly choice.

One thing that I try and have my clients participate in, is to donate the flowers to a local hospital or senior citizen center or send them home with your guests.

A great addition to the eco-friendly favors on the tables is to pull the "green" theme into your centerpieces. Table decor can take the form of small perenials or baby bushes that can later by planted by your guests. If you are looking for a vessel for the center of your table to hold sea shells or colorful rocks, consider vases made from recycled glass or a bamboo bowl, due to renewable tendencies.

The Green World Project
Favors 4 Wedding
The I Do Foundation's Favors for Charity program
Tender Seed Company

Love the earth,

J

 photos courtesy of weddingobsession, dreamgreenweddings,thecakelist

A little Vintage

Vintage weddings are as popular as they ever were. The fashion world looks back for inspiration, and now the wedding world is following suit! If you’re planning a vintage wedding and you’re looking for ideas you’ve come to the right place.

Every bride can look fabulous with a vintage wedding dress. Every wedding venue can be decorated in vintage styles – and some of the top wedding venues are stately cottages and castles with a sense of history and beauty which perfectly suits a vintage wedding day.

Decorate tables with crystals and pearls or hire vintage crockery – use peonies, roses or wildflowers for an eclectic look!

Everyone wants to please their friends and family when planning a wedding. Parents, friends, bridesmaids and wedding suppliers will all want to get involved if they can, and vintage weddings are great crowd pleasers!

Every wedding magazine is full of vintage inspiration, and vintage wedding ideas are all over the internet – so you can’t go wrong hunting for inspiration for your vintage wedding day. Top celebs are incorporating the vintage style into their weddings, with everyone opting for classic lace, pearls and vintage accessories it’s a trend that is set to last and last!

The vintage wedding theme is easy to adapt to your own wedding budget. Whether you’re having an elaborate celebration or an intimate wedding at home, you can use vintage elements to create beautiful wedding decor – either source it online, buy antiques or make your own vintage inspired accessories.

I love quirky vintage wedding website www.weddingspinster.com. It’s full of vintage photos and information that might help brides- and grooms-to-be plan unique, vintage-inspired weddings.

chat soon,

J